Our Male Chastity/FLR/DD Life

  Things are slowly moving along for us. Mi Amor has been hospitalized 31 o f the past 36 days. They have not started treatment yet for the main problem as we have spent 7 months trying to clear other complications first.   The last hospital stay was 21 days. I missed her terribly!! It is not the same at home without her. The dogs are company but they get tired of my stories and go to sleep.   As far as our male chastity lifestyle, we have not deviated from it throughout this whole ordeal. At one point Mi Amor said I really could remove it as she was very ill and couldn't really do a thing for me. I opted to stay caged and serve her even more.   We do have cameras in our home. One is in the living room. Every 3 or 4 days she would have me remove my cage in front of the camera and edge myself while she watched from her phone app. I was appreciative of any attention for sure. Twice she allowed me to masturbate to completion to ease a little stress. So we were still...

   Well it has really been a challenge to have the time to write. Mi Amor spent 10 days in the hospital. It is a long commute each way and that was a busy time. She has begun her treatment finally. We are on the way to recovery. Her breathing is still very shallow and she tires quickly right now.    For me it is still the same. I am still caged 24/7. It did come up that I could take a break during this trying period, but I would not have that. I am her kept husband as agreed upon 2 1/2 years ago. I love her and need this bond even more at this time to be honest. It does allow for some kind of connection at least.    I am instructed to edge in front of her every 3 days or so. I have been allowed to finish several times the past few months. Always in front of my keyholder.    About 5 days ago she said I really needed an attitude adjustment and had me fetch 2 paddles and lay across the bed in front of her. She was crossed leg sitting up and delive...

  Wanted to get back and post an update. It has been quite some time since I have had a minute to do this.    Mi Amor has not had any improvement in her health. We are still dealing with more diagnosis and not on to a treatment plan yet. She can not breath enough to walk up our stairs right now. It has been tough.   Needless to say her desire for any kind of sexual play is there mentally, however there is no way physically she can do anything. We deal with it but both of us do miss how things had been progressing in our relationship. After 20+ years together we were still enjoying each other sexually.    I am still caged and do not have any desire to go back to living "wild". I love how entering in to a male chastity lifestyle had solidified an already great marriage and want to keep that.   Mi Amor has been allowing me relief by way of masturbating while kneeling in front of her. Not often, maybe a 10 - 12 day wait on average.   Also there h...

  Well, we had no idea when we started this blog that things were going to take a dramatic turn. In fact we thought things were going pretty good in most areas of our life. That was why we decided to share some insight in to our lifestyle after 2 years of 24/7 practice in a male chastity/flr/dd relationship.   Well it wasn't long after that medical issues have taken a hold and need to be dealt with. Mi Amor is not in shape for much of anything at this time. Just breathing is a chore for her at this point. We have some treatments upcoming that will take a toll on her also. But we are ready to deal with things.   How has that left our sexual play? Needless to say it is very limited right now. I don't believe she can even think of arousal right now on her part. She is in constant pain. I see it in her.   I am still caged 24/7. I am still in panties every day. I would not want it any other way right now. Occasionally she will remember about my plight and allow me to r...

   One thing about living a male chastity/flr/dd lifestyle is that communication between us is all the more important with all the psychological aspects of it that can come up for each other.    We have not been doing very much sexually with Mi Amor dealing with so many health problems right now. I do all it takes to keep our home going and my keyholder comfortable. I would love more activity for sure, but this is where we are at this time. We are committed to each other and both love this lifestyle.    Last night was one of those learning experiences for us both. It had been about 6 weeks since any punishment has been carried out. Mi Amor has not had enough strength to carry out proper session. She was also preparing to leave for a few days with some girlfriends as a way to try and start getting around. I thought it would be great for her too. She also said she thought I should get some relief before she left.    Evening came and she was about...

   It has been awhile since I have been able to really sit down and write. As you know we are dealing with major medical issues. Mi amor has moments where she can not breath and is unable to really do anything. I really feel bad that I cannot do anything to help, just make her comfortable. I know she appreciates it too. It isn't like she doesn't think about us during all this, it is just she can't do all that she wants to right now.    Sunday had made it 9 days since I have been allowed to cum. In that time there has been several hospital trips, a hospital stay and lots of poking and scans for my keyholder. She has been a trooper through it all. But there is a good 3 months of this ahead for her.    On Thursday Mi Amor let me know she was well aware of how far off schedule we are for my punishment. She also felt it should be taken care of before getting any relief. I agreed and was glad to know she had been thinking about us. Also I know how it would hurt...

   The one thing that will always happen is life. Just when you think thing's are good and all is well something else will come up. Just a matter of how you choose to deal with it.    As you know, Mi Amor deals with some serious medical issues. Looking at her you would not know it. She is a beautiful, sexy woman who has kicked cancers ass a few times already. As is the case for most survivors, it is never really gone, it is a constant watch to be sure if it returns it is caught quickly.    We knew that we were about to go in to battle again but this time she was given a double hit. When going for her pre biopsy visit they found a severe lung infection. They had to keep her a few days and start treating that first. She has been down for about 2 months as no one knew about the infection and it just lingered. So how does any of this involve our male chastity lifestyle?    Well, I have come across many people and writings in which people drift and ...

   There is one thing for sure. Men are visual creatures for sure. For most men it is as important as any sexual relief that may come their way.    There is nothing that keeps a guys attention than slowly getting to see more and more of their wife, girlfriend or whomever it is they share themselves with. We can get very tunnel visioned at those moments.    I know for us it is huge. I get just as excited to this day when I get to see Mi Amor's beautiful body as I did the very first time over 20 years ago. And to have the pleasure of seeing her naked while my cock is confined is the ultimate tease. I worship every sexy curve of her. I will never get enough of her. So needless to say she can use that to her advantage as often as she chooses while my desire grows and cock is slammed tight in my cage.    I wonder if the "visual" aspect of this lifestyle excites other caged men as it does me? Just curious.    Many times Mi Amor has me ligh...

    The thing that I enjoy most about this lifestyle is the psychology of it and how it can be morphed to fit the couple living it. I don’t think I have run across any blog that is written by a real couple that doesn’t contain their own twist on it in some unique way that suits their life.    For myself the wait is not what it is about. It is the communication and play that leads up to my eventual relief. And for Mi Amor, she derives pleasure and interest by never letting me know if this is the day. I am just expected to follow the rules and she will take care of my sexual pleasures. As she sees fit.    It has worked out for us in another way also. She suffers from serious medical issues dealing several cancers. She beats them and they return. A 10 year battle now. She has periods when she can not even walk to the bathroom without having to pause to get her breath. Things like vacuuming the house, carrying laundry, cleaning good are impossible. I am one w...

  As a kept husband I am beginning to see deeper in to the world of male chastity and Female Led Relationships. I believe for our marriage it has brought us closer together and gives Mi Amor the secure feeling of knowing her man is dedicated to her in ways most women dream of and secure in knowing her man is not going to be playing around and compromising their relationship.    Another advantage the wife who becomes a keyholder/disciplinarian has is that she does not get pestered for sex when she is not in the mood for it and that she does not do things sexually she does not want to do. In our case Mi Amor does not like the act of giving a man oral sex. I have not had oral pleasure since the day the cage was placed on my cock. Over a year and a half now! She made it clear she did not like it so I have to accept that. I have.      However, there are some small things a keyholder can do to keep her caged man aroused and attentive to her beck and...

   One thing for sure about living as a chaste husband, when I do get relief it is always an exciting moment. Mi Amor never gives a hint that I may be getting it either. Every day is assumed I won't be, and that is the plight of being kept in a chastity cage.    Saturday we had a few friends over for some drinks and food. It went on for some time with all parties involved getting a good buzz by midnight. We called it a night and our guests left. I was ready for that.    So once in our room and out of our clothes I was surprised. It was day 10 for me and just figured we were going to sleep after that much partying. Never giving any thought to any chance of some sex play despite how much I would have loved it. I was wrong again. As usual in this lifestyle.    We no sooner hit the mattress when Mi Amor said I was going to go down on her and I should remove my cage. Wow, I was shocked. No warning, no massage, no nothing. Just right out with it. And...

   We are coming up on 2 years since we began living a 24/7 male chastity/dd/flr marriage. It started as my idea to spark a dying love life due to medical issues. Once Mi amor accepted and we placed my cock in a cage our life together has become very interesting.    In fact at this point I don't think either of us could imagine living any other way now. She enjoys the never ending attention she gets and I enjoy serving my keyholder. I wake every day excited to see her and begin to pamper her again.    I know that some men wonder about the effect a cage will have on their penis if worn 24/7. I can assure you, nothing changes except the fact you will no longer be in control of your own cock. Your source of release and pleasure is in the hands of your keyholder. There will be moments when you wonder why you even did this as you are left frustrated at times while your Goddess lets you flounder.    I have read of some who say it is all BS because yo...

   Well it has been weeks of Mi Amor trying her best to recover from her surgery and dealing with excessive pollen at the same time. I felt bad for her. It was a rough spell.    We have been pretty quiet through it all with me trying to keep her comfortable and make sure the house and dogs are taken care of.    Outside of some edging we haven't really been able to "play" at all. But about 2 days ago Mi Amor let me know we were 2 weeks behind on my punishment and we will be getting to it. She did let me know that I have been attentive and busy taking care of things but we both know I need this to maintain my focus.    So yesterday it was the day to get back on course. In the morning it was edging again. Only day 8 since last relief,  but I was horny as hell!!    Later on, after I had just showered, Mi Amor said "let's get your punishment done before I take mine". That means panties off and get myself ready on the horse. Ball ga...

  I spend 24/7 in my steel chastity cage. It is part of me at this point. I don't even notice it when going about my day.  Male chastity lifestyle is that. So in reality, outside of wearing a cage all the time sexual exploits take up a very small percentage of our time. Life consumes 99% of it. I wish it were the other way around!!   That's why I get a thrill out of the times when Mi Amor does something unexpected like she did Wednesday night.   Tuesday was day 6 for me and I was really horny already. And I have been doing some long stretches this first quarter of 2019 between relief, I had been allowed edging on Monday to keep me attentive.   So on Wednesday I set the massage table up after she showered to give her a massage. The table makes it so easy to as compared to lying on a mattress. Best 100 bucks we've spent. I heated up her lotion and got the candles lit she enjoys at massage time.   Just as I was about to be ready for her she told me that sh...

  Just curious. How many keyholder/wives keep their chaste husbands in panties? I know I read of many who are kept naked at home which is how we started, though it didn't take long for me to be placed in panties.   I know we are kept nude or in panties for a reason. It definitely delineates the line of power between a keyholder and her caged husband. However I myself find a real difference.   Being kept naked at first was different. I never experienced this before. But in time Mi Amor was more attune to the idea of panties, one reason was so she didn't have to see at my asshole as I bend over while cleaning and doing my chores for her.   But the biggest reason is that it is quite humbling for a husband to have to wear panties in front of his wife while in the house. She is amused by it and enjoys the power she has over me. I often wonder if she thinks it is silly to see a grown man in frilly panties. But I guess that is part of it. Her caged husband in an embarras...

  I am sure many people "taking a peek" in to this lifestyle think, oh yeah, 24/7 sex play. All right. Well folks I can attest there is a thing called life that sometimes gets in the way.   We do live a 24/7 male chastity/flr/dd life. But in between the small amount of time where there is actual sex play we live life. We just live it with me caged and her in charge.   Tuesday Mi Amor had to have a minor outpatient surgery. It took only a few minutes and hours of waiting. All went well and we were home in 4 hours. She wasn't too sore that evening, but come Wednesday morning she was in real pain. Which meant I was still waiting.   Wednesday was actually day 19 without any relief. Just lots of edging and massages and pleasuring my keyholder. Again, not the longest stretch I've done but long enough to drive me crazy! 2 years ago when I was jacking off all the time I would have cum about 50 times in that period. Quite a different life now.   But finally on Wedne...

  Do not be misled by the title. Mi Amor has been in control from day 1. I have watched her grow in her role as my keyholder and disciplinarian. Day by day in fact. She has never really been "soft" since the day I approached her about considering this lifestyle.    I have been quick to share info with her and ideas I would have. She appreciates the info and reads many of the articles I suggest. What I didn't realize that I was in some small way "topping from the bottom" with my requests and ideas. This all came to a head that nearly ended our journey. However it has ended up strengthening it and elevating the power Mi Amor is now wielding over me.   This is what happened that dreadful/enlightening night:   It was just after Christmas. I had the massage table set up and Mi Amor had showered and was ready for lotion and a long rubdown. It had been about 10 days since I had received any relief and I was horny as hell.   I had massaged her at least an hour ...

   Today is day 16 for me with no relief. Mi Amor is finally starting to feel a little better. I am glad. I hate seeing the one I love feeling crummy and can't really help her. I just see to it she has what she needs and is comfortable.   Friday night she did surprise me. She had a nice lone massage using our massage table. I bought it to enhance her massages. It really is better than just lying on a mattress. And the visual of my Goddess on that table makes me crazy for her.    We started with her in some pj shorts and I was feeling twisted up as I so wanted to see her treasure. Then after about 20 minutes she decided the shorts could go and I could see her "suzy". This pinned me to the walls of my cage for sure. I thanked for doing that as it is an honor to be able to gaze upon my keyholder and realize that she allowed this.    We continued for another 45 minutes until Mi Amor announced she was good with the massage and that she was going to lay o...

  At the time I asked MI Amor to become my keyholder I thought I had it all thought out. This would be nothing but a full time sexual experience. Well I have learned a few things in 22 months of 24/7 male chastity/flr/dd lifestyle. And there is a lot to learn about each other in this.   There are many times life gets in the way of good plans. There is no escaping the realities of what it can bring. I have a few examples to share with you.   There have been a few times where my keyholder has let me go for some time without relief. Then after some days she has become ill from all she deals with and can't get in to doing anything. During those times I am edged regularly and still give her a massage every night as I am supposed to do. But it can cause my time waiting to be allowed to cum to extend indefinitely.   We are in one of those times at the moment. Today is day 13 for me. Edged about 7 times during this so far but have not been allowed to pleasure Mi Amor to o...

  Well of course there are no rules except for the basic. No cumming!!  I believe outside of that a couple again have to explore and see what works best for them. That seems to be a reoccurring statement in the male chastity/ flr / dd world.   I read of many who say the only way is for their keyholder to take charge and edge them. I am not so sure. The one thing I do know is edging is necessary to maintain the aroused state of the caged male and it gives his penis a workout by allowing for a full erection and fill the muscle with blood.   As far as how it is carried out is up to the keyholder, right? I mean that is the way it goes for everything a kept hubby gets. We asked for it!   In our daily life which involves work, housework, taking care of pets, maintaing yard etc... We find time to play. Whether it is me pleasuring Mi Amor, giving her a massage, making love or what ever we are doing it is with my beautiful keyholder in charge.   This goes for ed...