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Is The Visual Important To Your Chastity Life?

   There is one thing for sure. Men are visual creatures for sure. For most men it is as important as any sexual relief that may come their way.
   There is nothing that keeps a guys attention than slowly getting to see more and more of their wife, girlfriend or whomever it is they share themselves with. We can get very tunnel visioned at those moments.
   I know for us it is huge. I get just as excited to this day when I get to see Mi Amor's beautiful body as I did the very first time over 20 years ago. And to have the pleasure of seeing her naked while my cock is confined is the ultimate tease. I worship every sexy curve of her. I will never get enough of her. So needless to say she can use that to her advantage as often as she chooses while my desire grows and cock is slammed tight in my cage.
   I wonder if the "visual" aspect of this lifestyle excites other caged men as it does me? Just curious.
   Many times Mi Amor has me light the candles to get ready for her massage. Once she is ready I am informed that it will be a massage, no other "service" will be needed this evening. Then she lays out on our massage table and I am allowed to look upon her naked body and wish I could do more, for sometimes over an hour. I just drip from my cage while feasting on her amazing, sexy body. Knowing that I will be going to bed totally frustrated and dying to taste her nectar or make love to her amuses her as she flex's her power.
   Many things in the course of the day can be quite a tease for a caged male. Mi Amor will have me hold out her panties as she dresses so she can just step in to them. While I am gazing right at the prize I so crave. Simple but effective. Having to towel her off after her shower, total tease as I dry off her warm, soft body. 
   Really the ways to tease and keep your chaste male attentive are endless. A keyholder can stay entertained for weeks at her subs expense. I look forward to it in some crazy way!!!

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