One thing about living a male chastity/flr/dd lifestyle is that communication between us is all the more important with all the psychological aspects of it that can come up for each other.
We have not been doing very much sexually with Mi Amor dealing with so many health problems right now. I do all it takes to keep our home going and my keyholder comfortable. I would love more activity for sure, but this is where we are at this time. We are committed to each other and both love this lifestyle.
Last night was one of those learning experiences for us both. It had been about 6 weeks since any punishment has been carried out. Mi Amor has not had enough strength to carry out proper session. She was also preparing to leave for a few days with some girlfriends as a way to try and start getting around. I thought it would be great for her too. She also said she thought I should get some relief before she left.
Evening came and she was about to shower when she announced that we should do punishment before she left also. I responded with "whatever you feel we need to do, just tell me". I never know right now when she will feel good enough for anything. So she said let's do it before she showered.
I was taken in to our spare room where the spanking horse is set up and her paddle collection hangs neatly on the wall. I mounted the horse and she selected her first paddle of choice, her wooden shower brush. The swats began at full force since she doesn't know right now how long she can carry on. And she is no weak women. Very athletic in her day. My ass was hurting fast as it is a little "soft" with the lack of punishment.
Then something interesting happened. She asked me about what I thought were worthy infractions that needed to be addressed. I muttered that they were written down on the dry erase pad by the horse. She had added one that said "I don't listen to my wife" that she wanted to get to.
But during the session when she was asking me what I thought needed improvement while receiving my swats I kept saying "I was doing the best I could at keeping up right now". The swats went on for a few more hits and we were done. My bottom hurt despite only about 25 swats. But thet were all home runs!!
After we were through she brought up a very interesting point. She said "when I ask you what could be improved on" I expect that to be answered with what can be improved on, or what is on the list.... BUT "I do not want to hear I am doing the best I can". And she was quite adamant about what she was saying.
She then explained that being ill she sees how much I am doing for us. It makes it tough for her to deliver a proper punishment when she hears that answer knowing all that I do for her and that I am really a great husband.... . That was an eye opener! I didn't realize how much an answer could impact at that moment. I am so glad she let me know too. I will be making a real change in how I answer her. I could easily said I need to get a better grip on my temper when something springs up. On keeping my voice down when she is trying to tell me something, to listen better. A myriad of things come to mind now that I will remember.
So after her shower she was given a great massage to get her ready for her trip. She suggested I remove my cage at this time. No problem! ..... While I was doing her back she said I could do anything I wanted at the moment. Anything. I waited a few seconds before planting a big wet kiss on her rosebud!!. You see, I tell her every massage when doing her back that it is all I can do not to bury my tongue in there. We both giggle, but know it one of my favorite things to do for her.
After some more massage and tonguing her bottom she rolled over so I could go down on her. She tastes so good it is insane!! She then told me it was time for me to enter her. That was the best. She feels so amazing after not being inside her for 6 weeks now. It is always so intense when I cum in her now as it is a very special treat for me, her caged husband.
So it was a beautiful evening before her leaving and we both learned something that will help us in the future..... One thing we both agreed on was that I really was listening better and controlling my temper with things when the punishment was weekly. Something I think we will working towards again..... She left with her key hanging around her neck and the spare hidden away until she returns. I love her so much it is crazy.
We have not been doing very much sexually with Mi Amor dealing with so many health problems right now. I do all it takes to keep our home going and my keyholder comfortable. I would love more activity for sure, but this is where we are at this time. We are committed to each other and both love this lifestyle.
Last night was one of those learning experiences for us both. It had been about 6 weeks since any punishment has been carried out. Mi Amor has not had enough strength to carry out proper session. She was also preparing to leave for a few days with some girlfriends as a way to try and start getting around. I thought it would be great for her too. She also said she thought I should get some relief before she left.
Evening came and she was about to shower when she announced that we should do punishment before she left also. I responded with "whatever you feel we need to do, just tell me". I never know right now when she will feel good enough for anything. So she said let's do it before she showered.
I was taken in to our spare room where the spanking horse is set up and her paddle collection hangs neatly on the wall. I mounted the horse and she selected her first paddle of choice, her wooden shower brush. The swats began at full force since she doesn't know right now how long she can carry on. And she is no weak women. Very athletic in her day. My ass was hurting fast as it is a little "soft" with the lack of punishment.
Then something interesting happened. She asked me about what I thought were worthy infractions that needed to be addressed. I muttered that they were written down on the dry erase pad by the horse. She had added one that said "I don't listen to my wife" that she wanted to get to.
But during the session when she was asking me what I thought needed improvement while receiving my swats I kept saying "I was doing the best I could at keeping up right now". The swats went on for a few more hits and we were done. My bottom hurt despite only about 25 swats. But thet were all home runs!!
After we were through she brought up a very interesting point. She said "when I ask you what could be improved on" I expect that to be answered with what can be improved on, or what is on the list.... BUT "I do not want to hear I am doing the best I can". And she was quite adamant about what she was saying.She then explained that being ill she sees how much I am doing for us. It makes it tough for her to deliver a proper punishment when she hears that answer knowing all that I do for her and that I am really a great husband.... . That was an eye opener! I didn't realize how much an answer could impact at that moment. I am so glad she let me know too. I will be making a real change in how I answer her. I could easily said I need to get a better grip on my temper when something springs up. On keeping my voice down when she is trying to tell me something, to listen better. A myriad of things come to mind now that I will remember.
So after her shower she was given a great massage to get her ready for her trip. She suggested I remove my cage at this time. No problem! ..... While I was doing her back she said I could do anything I wanted at the moment. Anything. I waited a few seconds before planting a big wet kiss on her rosebud!!. You see, I tell her every massage when doing her back that it is all I can do not to bury my tongue in there. We both giggle, but know it one of my favorite things to do for her.
After some more massage and tonguing her bottom she rolled over so I could go down on her. She tastes so good it is insane!! She then told me it was time for me to enter her. That was the best. She feels so amazing after not being inside her for 6 weeks now. It is always so intense when I cum in her now as it is a very special treat for me, her caged husband.
So it was a beautiful evening before her leaving and we both learned something that will help us in the future..... One thing we both agreed on was that I really was listening better and controlling my temper with things when the punishment was weekly. Something I think we will working towards again..... She left with her key hanging around her neck and the spare hidden away until she returns. I love her so much it is crazy.
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