Our Male Chastity/FLR/DD Life

  Things are slowly moving along for us. Mi Amor has been hospitalized 31 o f the past 36 days. They have not started treatment yet for the main problem as we have spent 7 months trying to clear other complications first.   The last hospital stay was 21 days. I missed her terribly!! It is not the same at home without her. The dogs are company but they get tired of my stories and go to sleep.   As far as our male chastity lifestyle, we have not deviated from it throughout this whole ordeal. At one point Mi Amor said I really could remove it as she was very ill and couldn't really do a thing for me. I opted to stay caged and serve her even more.   We do have cameras in our home. One is in the living room. Every 3 or 4 days she would have me remove my cage in front of the camera and edge myself while she watched from her phone app. I was appreciative of any attention for sure. Twice she allowed me to masturbate to completion to ease a little stress. So we were still...

  Well, we had no idea when we started this blog that things were going to take a dramatic turn. In fact we thought things were going pretty good in most areas of our life. That was why we decided to share some insight in to our lifestyle after 2 years of 24/7 practice in a male chastity/flr/dd relationship.   Well it wasn't long after that medical issues have taken a hold and need to be dealt with. Mi Amor is not in shape for much of anything at this time. Just breathing is a chore for her at this point. We have some treatments upcoming that will take a toll on her also. But we are ready to deal with things.   How has that left our sexual play? Needless to say it is very limited right now. I don't believe she can even think of arousal right now on her part. She is in constant pain. I see it in her.   I am still caged 24/7. I am still in panties every day. I would not want it any other way right now. Occasionally she will remember about my plight and allow me to r...

   One thing about living a male chastity/flr/dd lifestyle is that communication between us is all the more important with all the psychological aspects of it that can come up for each other.    We have not been doing very much sexually with Mi Amor dealing with so many health problems right now. I do all it takes to keep our home going and my keyholder comfortable. I would love more activity for sure, but this is where we are at this time. We are committed to each other and both love this lifestyle.    Last night was one of those learning experiences for us both. It had been about 6 weeks since any punishment has been carried out. Mi Amor has not had enough strength to carry out proper session. She was also preparing to leave for a few days with some girlfriends as a way to try and start getting around. I thought it would be great for her too. She also said she thought I should get some relief before she left.    Evening came and she was about...

    The thing that I enjoy most about this lifestyle is the psychology of it and how it can be morphed to fit the couple living it. I don’t think I have run across any blog that is written by a real couple that doesn’t contain their own twist on it in some unique way that suits their life.    For myself the wait is not what it is about. It is the communication and play that leads up to my eventual relief. And for Mi Amor, she derives pleasure and interest by never letting me know if this is the day. I am just expected to follow the rules and she will take care of my sexual pleasures. As she sees fit.    It has worked out for us in another way also. She suffers from serious medical issues dealing several cancers. She beats them and they return. A 10 year battle now. She has periods when she can not even walk to the bathroom without having to pause to get her breath. Things like vacuuming the house, carrying laundry, cleaning good are impossible. I am one w...

  I imagine most men who fantasize about submitting to a dominant female see this as nothing but a way to get the sexual attention they are dreaming about. 24/7 of this powerful woman over them as they are used all the time. Well guys, it is a little different than that in a male chastity/flr marriage.   Reality is different. My wife/keyholder is the most beautiful woman in the world. Her beauty and sexy ways have always turned me on. However, since the day she accepted our entering in to this lifestyle her beauty and sexiness has magnified itself. And she uses it to her advantage!   The truth is you still live life. Work, social events, family etc... The time actually spent 'playing" is really only a small percentage of what it entails. I know every couple will find the things that work best in their relationship.   For us it a lifestyle and not a weekend thing. We are living this way. I am honored to serve her and let her know I understand my position and accept...

  Once we had made the decision of male chastity and the cage was on we now had to learn about this new lifestyle (new for us). So we began sharing info with each other and would experiment with things to see what fits our marriage.   One of the most important things we discovered is tease and denial. Mi Amor was quite surprised that I was willing to be aroused to the point of climax and then be put away without the finish. I wasn't sure about it as I was never in this situation before. I was a full time masturbator so I never went without. Talk about something that will keep you focused on your woman!   It did not take Mi Amor long to get the teasing down. She has her ways that she has developed that keep me wanting her. Always. I am amazed at some of what she comes up with on her own after some time as my keyholder. She is a tease!!   Every night she gets a massage. These can be done a number of ways. We did purchase a massage table for this as we felt it would ...