Our Male Chastity/FLR/DD Life

  Wanted to get back and post an update. It has been quite some time since I have had a minute to do this.    Mi Amor has not had any improvement in her health. We are still dealing with more diagnosis and not on to a treatment plan yet. She can not breath enough to walk up our stairs right now. It has been tough.   Needless to say her desire for any kind of sexual play is there mentally, however there is no way physically she can do anything. We deal with it but both of us do miss how things had been progressing in our relationship. After 20+ years together we were still enjoying each other sexually.    I am still caged and do not have any desire to go back to living "wild". I love how entering in to a male chastity lifestyle had solidified an already great marriage and want to keep that.   Mi Amor has been allowing me relief by way of masturbating while kneeling in front of her. Not often, maybe a 10 - 12 day wait on average.   Also there h...

   One thing about living a male chastity/flr/dd lifestyle is that communication between us is all the more important with all the psychological aspects of it that can come up for each other.    We have not been doing very much sexually with Mi Amor dealing with so many health problems right now. I do all it takes to keep our home going and my keyholder comfortable. I would love more activity for sure, but this is where we are at this time. We are committed to each other and both love this lifestyle.    Last night was one of those learning experiences for us both. It had been about 6 weeks since any punishment has been carried out. Mi Amor has not had enough strength to carry out proper session. She was also preparing to leave for a few days with some girlfriends as a way to try and start getting around. I thought it would be great for her too. She also said she thought I should get some relief before she left.    Evening came and she was about...

   It has been awhile since I have been able to really sit down and write. As you know we are dealing with major medical issues. Mi amor has moments where she can not breath and is unable to really do anything. I really feel bad that I cannot do anything to help, just make her comfortable. I know she appreciates it too. It isn't like she doesn't think about us during all this, it is just she can't do all that she wants to right now.    Sunday had made it 9 days since I have been allowed to cum. In that time there has been several hospital trips, a hospital stay and lots of poking and scans for my keyholder. She has been a trooper through it all. But there is a good 3 months of this ahead for her.    On Thursday Mi Amor let me know she was well aware of how far off schedule we are for my punishment. She also felt it should be taken care of before getting any relief. I agreed and was glad to know she had been thinking about us. Also I know how it would hurt...

  Well of course there are no rules except for the basic. No cumming!!  I believe outside of that a couple again have to explore and see what works best for them. That seems to be a reoccurring statement in the male chastity/ flr / dd world.   I read of many who say the only way is for their keyholder to take charge and edge them. I am not so sure. The one thing I do know is edging is necessary to maintain the aroused state of the caged male and it gives his penis a workout by allowing for a full erection and fill the muscle with blood.   As far as how it is carried out is up to the keyholder, right? I mean that is the way it goes for everything a kept hubby gets. We asked for it!   In our daily life which involves work, housework, taking care of pets, maintaing yard etc... We find time to play. Whether it is me pleasuring Mi Amor, giving her a massage, making love or what ever we are doing it is with my beautiful keyholder in charge.   This goes for ed...

  I imagine most men who fantasize about submitting to a dominant female see this as nothing but a way to get the sexual attention they are dreaming about. 24/7 of this powerful woman over them as they are used all the time. Well guys, it is a little different than that in a male chastity/flr marriage.   Reality is different. My wife/keyholder is the most beautiful woman in the world. Her beauty and sexy ways have always turned me on. However, since the day she accepted our entering in to this lifestyle her beauty and sexiness has magnified itself. And she uses it to her advantage!   The truth is you still live life. Work, social events, family etc... The time actually spent 'playing" is really only a small percentage of what it entails. I know every couple will find the things that work best in their relationship.   For us it a lifestyle and not a weekend thing. We are living this way. I am honored to serve her and let her know I understand my position and accept...

  On May 12, 2017 I finally had the nerve to ask my beautiful wife of 16 years, at the time, if she would be interested in trying male chastity/flr together. I had spent over 3 months reading about it and looking in to chastity cages etc. From what I was reading I felt this could be the answer to our reviving our sex life. She had been through 6 years of 2 cancers and many treatments. This took a huge toll on her libido and desire for sex. I took care of her and spent many years masturbating and watching porn to fulfill myself.   I wish I had found out about male chastity back then. I didn't realize the selfishness of what I was doing.   So on the night I asked her to do this with me I then gave her some material to read and get an idea of what this was about. She asked if I was sure that I wanted her to have complete control over my cock and my ability to feel pleasure or get relief after looking in to it. I said yes. I said I did not want to be watching porn and mastu...