Taking What Is Offered

I am sure many people "taking a peek" in to this lifestyle think, oh yeah, 24/7 sex play. All right. Well folks I can attest there is a thing called life that sometimes gets in the way.
We do live a 24/7 male chastity/flr/dd life. But in between the small amount of time where there is actual sex play we live life. We just live it with me caged and her in charge.
Tuesday Mi Amor had to have a minor outpatient surgery. It took only a few minutes
and hours of waiting. All went well and we were home in 4 hours. She wasn't too sore that evening, but come Wednesday morning she was in real pain. Which meant I was still waiting.
Wednesday was actually day 19 without any relief. Just lots of edging and massages and pleasuring my keyholder. Again, not the longest stretch I've done but long enough to drive me crazy! 2 years ago when I was jacking off all the time I would have cum about 50 times in that period. Quite a different life now.
But finally on Wednesday evening I gave Mi Amor a foot rub as she was in to much pain for much more. When I was about to finish up and lay down to watch some tv with her when she said she wasn't sure how long this pain would go on for so she would like me to have some relief.
She was in no shape to do anything so I laid out a towel on the floor next to the bed. She let me remove my cage and I was allowed to masturbate for her.
I do not really enjoy masturbating any more as she has broken that with 22 months caged. She does have me play with myself at times while she watches me. I find that to be somewhat humiliating and slightly embarrassing. She will tell me when to start and stop. Want to feel humble? Try 60 years old and being told to play with yourself for your wife's amusement. Of course when she says it's over it is back in cage.
I was so glad to cum after 19 days I didn't care that I was reliving myself. Mi Amor participated the best she could at that moment by instructing me and watching with amusement. I will take it. I exploded within minutes and was glad to see it tickled her to watch me in such a vulnerable moment as a husband.
So no. It is not always what you think that goes on. We deal with daily life like everyone else. It's just that we have our lifestyle to share in the mix and it keeps us happy and secure in our marriage.... It's already Day 3 and I feel horny........ I am so blessed to serve such an amazing woman!!

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