We are coming up on 2 years since we began living a 24/7 male chastity/dd/flr marriage. It started as my idea to spark a dying love life due to medical issues. Once Mi amor accepted and we placed my cock in a cage our life together has become very interesting.
In fact at this point I don't think either of us could imagine living any other way now. She enjoys the never ending attention she gets and I enjoy serving my keyholder. I wake every day excited to see her and begin to pamper her again.
I know that some men wonder about the effect a cage will have on their penis if worn 24/7. I can assure you, nothing changes except the fact you will no longer be in control of your own cock. Your source of release and pleasure is in the hands of your keyholder. There will be moments when you wonder why you even did this as you are left frustrated at times while your Goddess lets you flounder.
I have read of some who say it is all BS because you can pull out of a cage device if you want to. I agree, they are not a maximum security device that is impenetrable. And the truth is that yes, you could pull your cock out and masturbate if you wanted too. But there is the question I have.
Why would you want to?
I approached Mi Amor with this idea not knowing anything about male chastity or chastity devices. But through much research and searching out products it sounded perfect for us. I saw it as a way to truly involve each other on a daily basis and open up our sexual communication again.
I was right on all counts. We communicate as never before. About everything, not just sexual talk. We take more interest in each others needs too. It has been all we hoped it would be.
The one thing for sure though is that there is no way I am attempting to pull out of my cage to pleasure myself. I asked for this. I asked to be allowed to submit to her and have revealed a lot about my deep sexual desires and fantasies to her that I have never shared with anyone before. That I am truly my happiest serving her and watching her grow as a dominant wife and keyholder. In no way would I want to violate the trust we have by bypassing my cage and masturbating for my selfish desire.
I do not understand why a guy would ask for this and then go around the rules and still pleasure himself. It seems like cheating to me. I value the trust we have and could not expect Mi Amor to continue this path if I was playing with myself behind her back. I committed to this as did she. I will respect that to protect this amazing life we are living together. And yes, I am kept horny and wanting all the time. She is the best!!
In fact at this point I don't think either of us could imagine living any other way now. She enjoys the never ending attention she gets and I enjoy serving my keyholder. I wake every day excited to see her and begin to pamper her again.
I know that some men wonder about the effect a cage will have on their penis if worn 24/7. I can assure you, nothing changes except the fact you will no longer be in control of your own cock. Your source of release and pleasure is in the hands of your keyholder. There will be moments when you wonder why you even did this as you are left frustrated at times while your Goddess lets you flounder.
I have read of some who say it is all BS because you can pull out of a cage device if you want to. I agree, they are not a maximum security device that is impenetrable. And the truth is that yes, you could pull your cock out and masturbate if you wanted too. But there is the question I have.
Why would you want to?
I approached Mi Amor with this idea not knowing anything about male chastity or chastity devices. But through much research and searching out products it sounded perfect for us. I saw it as a way to truly involve each other on a daily basis and open up our sexual communication again.
I was right on all counts. We communicate as never before. About everything, not just sexual talk. We take more interest in each others needs too. It has been all we hoped it would be.
The one thing for sure though is that there is no way I am attempting to pull out of my cage to pleasure myself. I asked for this. I asked to be allowed to submit to her and have revealed a lot about my deep sexual desires and fantasies to her that I have never shared with anyone before. That I am truly my happiest serving her and watching her grow as a dominant wife and keyholder. In no way would I want to violate the trust we have by bypassing my cage and masturbating for my selfish desire.
I do not understand why a guy would ask for this and then go around the rules and still pleasure himself. It seems like cheating to me. I value the trust we have and could not expect Mi Amor to continue this path if I was playing with myself behind her back. I committed to this as did she. I will respect that to protect this amazing life we are living together. And yes, I am kept horny and wanting all the time. She is the best!!
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| My cock caged as usual. |
I agree with your opinion... if you go into chastity and then find ways to violate the trust, you are being unfaithful. I volunteered to go into chastity, but she declined. If we had chosen the chastity, I would honor it.
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