Our Male Chastity/FLR/DD Life

   It has been awhile since I have been able to really sit down and write. As you know we are dealing with major medical issues. Mi amor has moments where she can not breath and is unable to really do anything. I really feel bad that I cannot do anything to help, just make her comfortable. I know she appreciates it too. It isn't like she doesn't think about us during all this, it is just she can't do all that she wants to right now.    Sunday had made it 9 days since I have been allowed to cum. In that time there has been several hospital trips, a hospital stay and lots of poking and scans for my keyholder. She has been a trooper through it all. But there is a good 3 months of this ahead for her.    On Thursday Mi Amor let me know she was well aware of how far off schedule we are for my punishment. She also felt it should be taken care of before getting any relief. I agreed and was glad to know she had been thinking about us. Also I know how it would hurt after this long

   The one thing that will always happen is life. Just when you think thing's are good and all is well something else will come up. Just a matter of how you choose to deal with it.    As you know, Mi Amor deals with some serious medical issues. Looking at her you would not know it. She is a beautiful, sexy woman who has kicked cancers ass a few times already. As is the case for most survivors, it is never really gone, it is a constant watch to be sure if it returns it is caught quickly.    We knew that we were about to go in to battle again but this time she was given a double hit. When going for her pre biopsy visit they found a severe lung infection. They had to keep her a few days and start treating that first. She has been down for about 2 months as no one knew about the infection and it just lingered. So how does any of this involve our male chastity lifestyle?    Well, I have come across many people and writings in which people drift and stray from their partner during the

   There is one thing for sure. Men are visual creatures for sure. For most men it is as important as any sexual relief that may come their way.    There is nothing that keeps a guys attention than slowly getting to see more and more of their wife, girlfriend or whomever it is they share themselves with. We can get very tunnel visioned at those moments.    I know for us it is huge. I get just as excited to this day when I get to see Mi Amor's beautiful body as I did the very first time over 20 years ago. And to have the pleasure of seeing her naked while my cock is confined is the ultimate tease. I worship every sexy curve of her. I will never get enough of her. So needless to say she can use that to her advantage as often as she chooses while my desire grows and cock is slammed tight in my cage.    I wonder if the "visual" aspect of this lifestyle excites other caged men as it does me? Just curious.    Many times Mi Amor has me light the candles to get ready for her

    The thing that I enjoy most about this lifestyle is the psychology of it and how it can be morphed to fit the couple living it. I don’t think I have run across any blog that is written by a real couple that doesn’t contain their own twist on it in some unique way that suits their life.    For myself the wait is not what it is about. It is the communication and play that leads up to my eventual relief. And for Mi Amor, she derives pleasure and interest by never letting me know if this is the day. I am just expected to follow the rules and she will take care of my sexual pleasures. As she sees fit.    It has worked out for us in another way also. She suffers from serious medical issues dealing several cancers. She beats them and they return. A 10 year battle now. She has periods when she can not even walk to the bathroom without having to pause to get her breath. Things like vacuuming the house, carrying laundry, cleaning good are impossible. I am one who can not sit still. So it h

  As a kept husband I am beginning to see deeper in to the world of male chastity and Female Led Relationships. I believe for our marriage it has brought us closer together and gives Mi Amor the secure feeling of knowing her man is dedicated to her in ways most women dream of and secure in knowing her man is not going to be playing around and compromising their relationship.    Another advantage the wife who becomes a keyholder/disciplinarian has is that she does not get pestered for sex when she is not in the mood for it and that she does not do things sexually she does not want to do. In our case Mi Amor does not like the act of giving a man oral sex. I have not had oral pleasure since the day the cage was placed on my cock. Over a year and a half now! She made it clear she did not like it so I have to accept that. I have.      However, there are some small things a keyholder can do to keep her caged man aroused and attentive to her beck and call. Remember, we men are s

   One thing for sure about living as a chaste husband, when I do get relief it is always an exciting moment. Mi Amor never gives a hint that I may be getting it either. Every day is assumed I won't be, and that is the plight of being kept in a chastity cage.    Saturday we had a few friends over for some drinks and food. It went on for some time with all parties involved getting a good buzz by midnight. We called it a night and our guests left. I was ready for that.    So once in our room and out of our clothes I was surprised. It was day 10 for me and just figured we were going to sleep after that much partying. Never giving any thought to any chance of some sex play despite how much I would have loved it. I was wrong again. As usual in this lifestyle.    We no sooner hit the mattress when Mi Amor said I was going to go down on her and I should remove my cage. Wow, I was shocked. No warning, no massage, no nothing. Just right out with it. And if there is one thing I need no pr

   We are coming up on 2 years since we began living a 24/7 male chastity/dd/flr marriage. It started as my idea to spark a dying love life due to medical issues. Once Mi amor accepted and we placed my cock in a cage our life together has become very interesting.    In fact at this point I don't think either of us could imagine living any other way now. She enjoys the never ending attention she gets and I enjoy serving my keyholder. I wake every day excited to see her and begin to pamper her again.    I know that some men wonder about the effect a cage will have on their penis if worn 24/7. I can assure you, nothing changes except the fact you will no longer be in control of your own cock. Your source of release and pleasure is in the hands of your keyholder. There will be moments when you wonder why you even did this as you are left frustrated at times while your Goddess lets you flounder.    I have read of some who say it is all BS because you can pull out of a cage device if