Priorities And Life Are Always Here

   The one thing that will always happen is life. Just when you think thing's are good and all is well something else will come up. Just a matter of how you choose to deal with it.
   As you know, Mi Amor deals with some serious medical issues. Looking at her you would not know it. She is a beautiful, sexy woman who has kicked cancers ass a few times already. As is the case for most survivors, it is never really gone, it is a constant watch to be sure if it returns it is caught quickly.
   We knew that we were about to go in to battle again but this time she was given a double hit. When going for her pre biopsy visit they found a severe lung infection. They had to keep her a few days and start treating that first. She has been down for about 2 months as no one knew about the infection and it just lingered. So how does any of this involve our male chastity lifestyle?
   Well, I have come across many people and writings in which people drift and stray from their partner during these kind of situations. There is very little sex play if any while these things are being dealt with. That is a truth. So many find a way to fill that void.
  It is a real need and is often not a subject thought about or discussed during these times by people. But it is a reality.
   I think this is a perfect lifestyle to deal with this. In the past I would use porn and my hand (cheating is not in my spirit at all, it forces one to lie and that is the start of trouble) which kept me away from Mi Amor more than I knew. This time is going to be very different. that is already evident.
   Thursday was day 8 for me and I was horny as hell. But Mi Amor ended up in the hospital and I was home alone with the pets. I thought to myself, this could go for awhile and it is already day 8. Dam.
   That evening though Mi Amor called and told me she knew relief was due and she was worried it would it could possibly be a long time before she was up for anything and felt bad about it. She told me I could remove my cage and relieve myself before bed if I needed it. I declined her offer at the time as my mind was still processing the events unfolding. But appreciated that she was even thinking of me at the moment. I did text her back and asked if it was okay to wear a pair of her panties to bed instead on mine. She said absolutely with a smiley face.
   However Friday morning I was super horny. I called to let her know I would be on my way. I then asked her if the deal was still standing about relieving myself. She said it was. I told her I would do that before leaving. So upon hanging up I did exactly that. Masturbated while alone. First time in 2 years.
   Well, it was relieving and disappointing. When I got to her I told her I don't think I could do that again. I felt like I was out of line cumming without her overseeing it. Mi Amor said "I gave you permission so I was overseeing it". That meant a lot. Crazy how this cage has changed my thinking!!
   So we are still finding a way to connect when in the past we would not even have touched on my needs. We will get through this. I am sure there will be some tough days for this caged hubby, but I know this lifestyle choice is going to help us both get through this. She has a willing, pantie clad servant to pamper her all the way...... Stay tuned.