Easily Amused We Are

  As a kept husband I am beginning to see deeper in to the world of male chastity and Female Led Relationships. I believe for our marriage it has brought us closer together and gives Mi Amor the secure feeling of knowing her man is dedicated to her in ways most women dream of and secure in knowing her man is not going to be playing around and compromising their relationship.

   Another advantage the wife who becomes a keyholder/disciplinarian has is that she does not get pestered for sex when she is not in the mood for it and that she does not do things sexually she does not want to do. In our case Mi Amor does not like the act of giving a man oral sex. I have not had oral pleasure since the day the cage was placed on my cock. Over a year and a half now! She made it clear she did not like it so I have to accept that. I have. 

   However, there are some small things a keyholder can do to keep her caged man aroused and attentive to her beck and call. Remember, we men are simple creatures. We crave attention from our dominant wives. She is the whole focus of our fantasies and realities. The more we are kept on the “sexual edge” the more attentive we get. Funny how that works. The carrot and the cart I guess.

   Many chaste hubbies are kept in panties by their wives to highlight their place as a kept male. We are in panties and she is dressed. This clearly shows who is in the power position. It also touches on the caged males need to experience small forms of mild/teasing humiliation. It reminds them of their predicament and present position.  Being made to wear panties, heels, small womens robes and the like really lets him know he is the sub in the relationship. 

   When he is doing his chores there is nothing like being told how “cute you look in your panties” or a couple of seconds running a hand over his panties/cage while you joke about his wishing he could get relief but you have the key.  These gestures are huge. Threatening to have a friend over for drinks and a movie while he serves and cleans in his panties.  Threatening that he will have to show his cage to someone. The communication does not have to long. But the joking/humiliation goes a long way in keeping focused on what matters. His obedience to you and your desires... The same with wearing your key. It is the other part of the bond. Key/Cage.  And knowing if another woman asks about the key you will gladly share it’s purpose. This is giving attention to his commitment to you and makes him feel proud that he serves good enough to be bragged about how he serves you since the lock up started. 

   Also great tease play is another kind of attention, a way for him to feel like he is not forgotten. Having a caged man occasionally kneel and kiss your bared bottom or kiss your pussy before you dress while you remind of what an honor it is to be allowed to do this is also an act of affection to us. That type of act shows the caged male you know his desires and that if he continues his good behavior he may even be allowed to fully enjoy your “treasures”, when your ready!!

   It doesn’t take much to keep us attentive. Just small gestures and communication will do it. In our head we sometimes feel we are forgotten about while kept locked up.  The mild humiliation and comments about our plight keep us going. It pushes us to want to serve more.   

   In an honest moment most caged males find a small amount of embarrassment and slight humiliation combined with an excitement that is hard to describe when they are talked about or made fun of for our plight in front of other women by our keyholder... In front of other men it has a slightly different effect.  We still have our masculinity side for the vanilla world to see. We are still men. Kind of embarrassing in unwanted way. I could see it having a good effect if it was in the setting of another couple or group that had other kept husbands. That would be interesting to experience. But most of the time it is uncomfortable for us.

   So yes, we do crave some “attention” at times from our dominant wives. a few seconds stay with us a long time. We are desperate for our keyholders approval.