Our Male Chastity/FLR/DD Life

  Things are slowly moving along for us. Mi Amor has been hospitalized 31 o f the past 36 days. They have not started treatment yet for the main problem as we have spent 7 months trying to clear other complications first.   The last hospital stay was 21 days. I missed her terribly!! It is not the same at home without her. The dogs are company but they get tired of my stories and go to sleep.   As far as our male chastity lifestyle, we have not deviated from it throughout this whole ordeal. At one point Mi Amor said I really could remove it as she was very ill and couldn't really do a thing for me. I opted to stay caged and serve her even more.   We do have cameras in our home. One is in the living room. Every 3 or 4 days she would have me remove my cage in front of the camera and edge myself while she watched from her phone app. I was appreciative of any attention for sure. Twice she allowed me to masturbate to completion to ease a little stress. So we were still...

   Well it has really been a challenge to have the time to write. Mi Amor spent 10 days in the hospital. It is a long commute each way and that was a busy time. She has begun her treatment finally. We are on the way to recovery. Her breathing is still very shallow and she tires quickly right now.    For me it is still the same. I am still caged 24/7. It did come up that I could take a break during this trying period, but I would not have that. I am her kept husband as agreed upon 2 1/2 years ago. I love her and need this bond even more at this time to be honest. It does allow for some kind of connection at least.    I am instructed to edge in front of her every 3 days or so. I have been allowed to finish several times the past few months. Always in front of my keyholder.    About 5 days ago she said I really needed an attitude adjustment and had me fetch 2 paddles and lay across the bed in front of her. She was crossed leg sitting up and delive...

  Well of course there are no rules except for the basic. No cumming!!  I believe outside of that a couple again have to explore and see what works best for them. That seems to be a reoccurring statement in the male chastity/ flr / dd world.   I read of many who say the only way is for their keyholder to take charge and edge them. I am not so sure. The one thing I do know is edging is necessary to maintain the aroused state of the caged male and it gives his penis a workout by allowing for a full erection and fill the muscle with blood.   As far as how it is carried out is up to the keyholder, right? I mean that is the way it goes for everything a kept hubby gets. We asked for it!   In our daily life which involves work, housework, taking care of pets, maintaing yard etc... We find time to play. Whether it is me pleasuring Mi Amor, giving her a massage, making love or what ever we are doing it is with my beautiful keyholder in charge.   This goes for ed...

  I imagine most men who fantasize about submitting to a dominant female see this as nothing but a way to get the sexual attention they are dreaming about. 24/7 of this powerful woman over them as they are used all the time. Well guys, it is a little different than that in a male chastity/flr marriage.   Reality is different. My wife/keyholder is the most beautiful woman in the world. Her beauty and sexy ways have always turned me on. However, since the day she accepted our entering in to this lifestyle her beauty and sexiness has magnified itself. And she uses it to her advantage!   The truth is you still live life. Work, social events, family etc... The time actually spent 'playing" is really only a small percentage of what it entails. I know every couple will find the things that work best in their relationship.   For us it a lifestyle and not a weekend thing. We are living this way. I am honored to serve her and let her know I understand my position and accept...

  On May 12, 2017 I finally had the nerve to ask my beautiful wife of 16 years, at the time, if she would be interested in trying male chastity/flr together. I had spent over 3 months reading about it and looking in to chastity cages etc. From what I was reading I felt this could be the answer to our reviving our sex life. She had been through 6 years of 2 cancers and many treatments. This took a huge toll on her libido and desire for sex. I took care of her and spent many years masturbating and watching porn to fulfill myself.   I wish I had found out about male chastity back then. I didn't realize the selfishness of what I was doing.   So on the night I asked her to do this with me I then gave her some material to read and get an idea of what this was about. She asked if I was sure that I wanted her to have complete control over my cock and my ability to feel pleasure or get relief after looking in to it. I said yes. I said I did not want to be watching porn and mastu...