Our Male Chastity/FLR/DD Life

  I imagine most men who fantasize about submitting to a dominant female see this as nothing but a way to get the sexual attention they are dreaming about. 24/7 of this powerful woman over them as they are used all the time. Well guys, it is a little different than that in a male chastity/flr marriage.   Reality is different. My wife/keyholder is the most beautiful woman in the world. Her beauty and sexy ways have always turned me on. However, since the day she accepted our entering in to this lifestyle her beauty and sexiness has magnified itself. And she uses it to her advantage!   The truth is you still live life. Work, social events, family etc... The time actually spent 'playing" is really only a small percentage of what it entails. I know every couple will find the things that work best in their relationship.   For us it a lifestyle and not a weekend thing. We are living this way. I am honored to serve her and let her know I understand my position and accept what come

  Once we had made the decision of male chastity and the cage was on we now had to learn about this new lifestyle (new for us). So we began sharing info with each other and would experiment with things to see what fits our marriage.   One of the most important things we discovered is tease and denial. Mi Amor was quite surprised that I was willing to be aroused to the point of climax and then be put away without the finish. I wasn't sure about it as I was never in this situation before. I was a full time masturbator so I never went without. Talk about something that will keep you focused on your woman!   It did not take Mi Amor long to get the teasing down. She has her ways that she has developed that keep me wanting her. Always. I am amazed at some of what she comes up with on her own after some time as my keyholder. She is a tease!!   Every night she gets a massage. These can be done a number of ways. We did purchase a massage table for this as we felt it would get good use si

  On May 12, 2017 I finally had the nerve to ask my beautiful wife of 16 years, at the time, if she would be interested in trying male chastity/flr together. I had spent over 3 months reading about it and looking in to chastity cages etc. From what I was reading I felt this could be the answer to our reviving our sex life. She had been through 6 years of 2 cancers and many treatments. This took a huge toll on her libido and desire for sex. I took care of her and spent many years masturbating and watching porn to fulfill myself.   I wish I had found out about male chastity back then. I didn't realize the selfishness of what I was doing.   So on the night I asked her to do this with me I then gave her some material to read and get an idea of what this was about. She asked if I was sure that I wanted her to have complete control over my cock and my ability to feel pleasure or get relief after looking in to it. I said yes. I said I did not want to be watching porn and masturbating wh