Well of course there are no rules except for the basic. No cumming!! I believe outside of that a couple again have to explore and see what works best for them. That seems to be a reoccurring statement in the male chastity/ flr / dd world.
I read of many who say the only way is for their keyholder to take charge and edge them. I am not so sure. The one thing I do know is edging is necessary to maintain the aroused state of the caged male and it gives his penis a workout by allowing for a full erection and fill the muscle with blood.
As far as how it is carried out is up to the keyholder, right? I mean that is the way it goes for everything a kept hubby gets. We asked for it!
In our daily life which involves work, housework, taking care of pets, maintaing yard etc... We find time to play. Whether it is me pleasuring Mi Amor, giving her a massage, making love or what ever we are doing it is with my beautiful keyholder in charge.
This goes for edging too. There are many times when Mi Amor is aching and tired from lingering effects of cancer treatments. So she will dictate how it will happen. Usually I am kneeling in front of her and must play with myself to erection and then edge myself. She will sometimes dictate when to start and stop. Other times she will tell me what time to stop but must keep edging until the time expires. She will warn me about not cumming as she watches over me. Then there are times she does the edging.
Whatever she chooses is fine with me. I appreciate her participation in any way it comes. I thank her for taking the time to be sure the edging happens as I know her time is important.
There are even times when she wants to watch a show and she will tell me to edge while she watches the show. This will really make a kept hubby feel submissive. She will look over and make a comment and back to her show. And try being made to edge while your keyholder has you kneeling outside her shower. The entire time she is in there. My cock is straining and wanting to explode by the time she is done and I am drying her off. Then back in the cage!! She has no mercy when it comes to orgasm control. She gets a kick out of her power position.
So really it is up to the couple as far as how things are done. Just enjoy exploring and communicating with each other in all areas of this exciting lifestyle. The key is discovering what fits your life.
I read of many who say the only way is for their keyholder to take charge and edge them. I am not so sure. The one thing I do know is edging is necessary to maintain the aroused state of the caged male and it gives his penis a workout by allowing for a full erection and fill the muscle with blood.
As far as how it is carried out is up to the keyholder, right? I mean that is the way it goes for everything a kept hubby gets. We asked for it!
In our daily life which involves work, housework, taking care of pets, maintaing yard etc... We find time to play. Whether it is me pleasuring Mi Amor, giving her a massage, making love or what ever we are doing it is with my beautiful keyholder in charge.
This goes for edging too. There are many times when Mi Amor is aching and tired from lingering effects of cancer treatments. So she will dictate how it will happen. Usually I am kneeling in front of her and must play with myself to erection and then edge myself. She will sometimes dictate when to start and stop. Other times she will tell me what time to stop but must keep edging until the time expires. She will warn me about not cumming as she watches over me. Then there are times she does the edging.
Whatever she chooses is fine with me. I appreciate her participation in any way it comes. I thank her for taking the time to be sure the edging happens as I know her time is important.
There are even times when she wants to watch a show and she will tell me to edge while she watches the show. This will really make a kept hubby feel submissive. She will look over and make a comment and back to her show. And try being made to edge while your keyholder has you kneeling outside her shower. The entire time she is in there. My cock is straining and wanting to explode by the time she is done and I am drying her off. Then back in the cage!! She has no mercy when it comes to orgasm control. She gets a kick out of her power position.
So really it is up to the couple as far as how things are done. Just enjoy exploring and communicating with each other in all areas of this exciting lifestyle. The key is discovering what fits your life.
An interesting description. My partner is not interested in 24/7 chastity, but she has talked about using it short term when she goes shopping, visits a girlfriend etc. How do you feel when she locks you back in the cage? I can imagine that it is frustrating but maybe you also feel a sense of satisfaction at submitting to her control?
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I do enjoy being in my cage as it seems to be the piece that bonds this all together. I don't think we would experience the same level of communication and joy we share now if we did not practice 24/7 male chastity. I am out to shower for about 20 min a day and back in. No need to even discuss it as it is just expected. The times I am taken out of my cage during her massage, while Mi Amor has me pleasure her or edging are really the moment i understand male chastity and her power over me. I am still a man who wants cum when aroused! I get incredibly aroused even at the thought of serving my keyholder, so you can imagine how aroused I am during these times. I never know if it is ending with me getting relief or being put away frustrated. So when she says " all right, I'm satisfied, now you can get back in your cage. Ouch! By the way, this is day 11 for me with no relief, just lots of edging and wishful talk. When the day cums, it will be mind blowing as usual.
ReplyDeleteYes, I can see that being kept in chastity really shows her power over you. When she wants you back in the cage does she tell you to put it on or does she lock you into it herself?
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