Our Male Chastity/FLR/DD Life

   Well it has been weeks of Mi Amor trying her best to recover from her surgery and dealing with excessive pollen at the same time. I felt bad for her. It was a rough spell.    We have been pretty quiet through it all with me trying to keep her comfortable and make sure the house and dogs are taken care of.    Outside of some edging we haven't really been able to "play" at all. But about 2 days ago Mi Amor let me know we were 2 weeks behind on my punishment and we will be getting to it. She did let me know that I have been attentive and busy taking care of things but we both know I need this to maintain my focus.    So yesterday it was the day to get back on course. In the morning it was edging again. Only day 8 since last relief,  but I was horny as hell!!    Later on, after I had just showered, Mi Amor said "let's get your punishment done before I take mine". That means panties off and get myself ready on the horse. Ball ga...

  I spend 24/7 in my steel chastity cage. It is part of me at this point. I don't even notice it when going about my day.  Male chastity lifestyle is that. So in reality, outside of wearing a cage all the time sexual exploits take up a very small percentage of our time. Life consumes 99% of it. I wish it were the other way around!!   That's why I get a thrill out of the times when Mi Amor does something unexpected like she did Wednesday night.   Tuesday was day 6 for me and I was really horny already. And I have been doing some long stretches this first quarter of 2019 between relief, I had been allowed edging on Monday to keep me attentive.   So on Wednesday I set the massage table up after she showered to give her a massage. The table makes it so easy to as compared to lying on a mattress. Best 100 bucks we've spent. I heated up her lotion and got the candles lit she enjoys at massage time.   Just as I was about to be ready for her she told me that sh...

  Just curious. How many keyholder/wives keep their chaste husbands in panties? I know I read of many who are kept naked at home which is how we started, though it didn't take long for me to be placed in panties.   I know we are kept nude or in panties for a reason. It definitely delineates the line of power between a keyholder and her caged husband. However I myself find a real difference.   Being kept naked at first was different. I never experienced this before. But in time Mi Amor was more attune to the idea of panties, one reason was so she didn't have to see at my asshole as I bend over while cleaning and doing my chores for her.   But the biggest reason is that it is quite humbling for a husband to have to wear panties in front of his wife while in the house. She is amused by it and enjoys the power she has over me. I often wonder if she thinks it is silly to see a grown man in frilly panties. But I guess that is part of it. Her caged husband in an embarras...

  I am sure many people "taking a peek" in to this lifestyle think, oh yeah, 24/7 sex play. All right. Well folks I can attest there is a thing called life that sometimes gets in the way.   We do live a 24/7 male chastity/flr/dd life. But in between the small amount of time where there is actual sex play we live life. We just live it with me caged and her in charge.   Tuesday Mi Amor had to have a minor outpatient surgery. It took only a few minutes and hours of waiting. All went well and we were home in 4 hours. She wasn't too sore that evening, but come Wednesday morning she was in real pain. Which meant I was still waiting.   Wednesday was actually day 19 without any relief. Just lots of edging and massages and pleasuring my keyholder. Again, not the longest stretch I've done but long enough to drive me crazy! 2 years ago when I was jacking off all the time I would have cum about 50 times in that period. Quite a different life now.   But finally on Wedne...

  Do not be misled by the title. Mi Amor has been in control from day 1. I have watched her grow in her role as my keyholder and disciplinarian. Day by day in fact. She has never really been "soft" since the day I approached her about considering this lifestyle.    I have been quick to share info with her and ideas I would have. She appreciates the info and reads many of the articles I suggest. What I didn't realize that I was in some small way "topping from the bottom" with my requests and ideas. This all came to a head that nearly ended our journey. However it has ended up strengthening it and elevating the power Mi Amor is now wielding over me.   This is what happened that dreadful/enlightening night:   It was just after Christmas. I had the massage table set up and Mi Amor had showered and was ready for lotion and a long rubdown. It had been about 10 days since I had received any relief and I was horny as hell.   I had massaged her at least an hour ...

   Today is day 16 for me with no relief. Mi Amor is finally starting to feel a little better. I am glad. I hate seeing the one I love feeling crummy and can't really help her. I just see to it she has what she needs and is comfortable.   Friday night she did surprise me. She had a nice lone massage using our massage table. I bought it to enhance her massages. It really is better than just lying on a mattress. And the visual of my Goddess on that table makes me crazy for her.    We started with her in some pj shorts and I was feeling twisted up as I so wanted to see her treasure. Then after about 20 minutes she decided the shorts could go and I could see her "suzy". This pinned me to the walls of my cage for sure. I thanked for doing that as it is an honor to be able to gaze upon my keyholder and realize that she allowed this.    We continued for another 45 minutes until Mi Amor announced she was good with the massage and that she was going to lay o...

  At the time I asked MI Amor to become my keyholder I thought I had it all thought out. This would be nothing but a full time sexual experience. Well I have learned a few things in 22 months of 24/7 male chastity/flr/dd lifestyle. And there is a lot to learn about each other in this.   There are many times life gets in the way of good plans. There is no escaping the realities of what it can bring. I have a few examples to share with you.   There have been a few times where my keyholder has let me go for some time without relief. Then after some days she has become ill from all she deals with and can't get in to doing anything. During those times I am edged regularly and still give her a massage every night as I am supposed to do. But it can cause my time waiting to be allowed to cum to extend indefinitely.   We are in one of those times at the moment. Today is day 13 for me. Edged about 7 times during this so far but have not been allowed to pleasure Mi Amor to o...

  Well of course there are no rules except for the basic. No cumming!!  I believe outside of that a couple again have to explore and see what works best for them. That seems to be a reoccurring statement in the male chastity/ flr / dd world.   I read of many who say the only way is for their keyholder to take charge and edge them. I am not so sure. The one thing I do know is edging is necessary to maintain the aroused state of the caged male and it gives his penis a workout by allowing for a full erection and fill the muscle with blood.   As far as how it is carried out is up to the keyholder, right? I mean that is the way it goes for everything a kept hubby gets. We asked for it!   In our daily life which involves work, housework, taking care of pets, maintaing yard etc... We find time to play. Whether it is me pleasuring Mi Amor, giving her a massage, making love or what ever we are doing it is with my beautiful keyholder in charge.   This goes for ed...