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Our Male Chastity/FLR/DD Marriage

  On May 12, 2017 I finally had the nerve to ask my beautiful wife of 16 years, at the time, if she would be interested in trying male chastity/flr together. I had spent over 3 months reading about it and looking in to chastity cages etc. From what I was reading I felt this could be the answer to our reviving our sex life. She had been through 6 years of 2 cancers and many treatments. This took a huge toll on her libido and desire for sex. I took care of her and spent many years masturbating and watching porn to fulfill myself.
  I wish I had found out about male chastity back then. I didn't realize the selfishness of what I was doing.
  So on the night I asked her to do this with me I then gave her some material to read and get an idea of what this was about. She asked if I was sure that I wanted her to have complete control over my cock and my ability to feel pleasure or get relief after looking in to it. I said yes. I said I did not want to be watching porn and masturbating when I need to be concentrating on her, my Goddess. So on May 16th, 2017 I was placed in a Holy Trainer II and we began our journey. I am kept caged 24/7 since. I am released daily for showering then back in as soon as I am dry.
  She has come to enjoy our lifestyle and really loves her position of power and my desire to serve and please her. I asked her to shape me in to the best subservient hubby there is and she has!
  It did not take long for discipline to enter in to the picture. We both agreed it is needed for a husband to really get it. She was new at it and as such was worried about hurting me. She does love me. This went on for a few months with weekly paddling sessions that were firm, but not what we now know is needed to bring about change. The past 6 months these are truly discipline sessions. She has a selection of 6 different paddles with which she has become very proficient in wielding. There is not really a warm up. She now just starts out hard and gets harder. By the 50th to 60th swat I am howling through the ball gag she has me wear. It does not take much more than that to remind me I do not want to face a session with her upset about any disobedience. She too is happier as she grows stronger in her role. She told me 2 weeks ago that she really sees a difference since she has made the discipline sessions very intense and painful. I now fear a little bit of what's to come when I am on our spanking horse waiting for her to enter the room and begin.
  She has me in panties 24/7 also. Mi Amor orders well made mens sexy/frilly panties for around the house as I am not clothed in the home. She buys me ladies bikini panties for work and out and about. She said she enjoys seeing me in them and I know it keeps me reminded of my position.
  She keeps me teased and wanting. I get regular edging and she gets a massage every night. This is for her pleasure and my torment. I never know on any given evening if she will be nude for her massage or in panties that hide her treasure and keep me wishing. I never know if it will be completed with her having me go down on her to orgasm, her using a vibrator as I watch her orgasm, or allowing me to remove my cage and be allowed to enter her and we enjoy each other. It is her choice every night. I just obey. I will share some delightful scenarios we have shared as we go on.
  I do her housework, laundry and cook on my days off. On days I work I get her coffee in the morning, do any housework real quick then go to work. I cook when I get home and clean up afterwards. She is my Goddess. I try to do all I can to show Mi Amor my appreciation for becoming my keyholder and disciplinarian. She does what ever she needs and wants to do. Don't think her girlfriends don't notice it either. Some envious girls around here!!
  We look forward to sharing this wonderful lifestyle with you and look forward to hearing from like minded couples to see how they institute male chastity/flr/dd in their marriages.

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